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You really need to process all these events and let them become memories. I always view adversity by saying that I grateful that it wasn't worse. There is always a silver lining in every bad event for example my weekend driver sports car got totalled by an uninsured juvenile with no insurance and on probation for drug possession. The silver lining was that I did not get whip lash and was not hurt. Just need to stop and think how awful things could have been and be grateful for what did not happen. Sounds a bit trite and silly but it has gotten me through many adversities including a stint as a pow in Asia. Good luck!!!!